“I am going to be Oprah! Something deep down in me is telling me I’m going to have her job. I like to talk. That has always been a thing of mine. Growing up, you have kids that can sing and kids that can dance. You have guys or girls that are very athletic. I wasn’t any of those kids. So, I thought I didn’t have a talent.

But it hasn’t been until the last three or four years that I began to understand that I have a way with people and that’s my talent. I like to talk, and I speak well. That’s my talent. In hearing Oprah’s story, I realized we have similar stories. She dealt with sexual abuse. So have I. I come from a very private family, and we didn’t really talk about stuff like that. So, I really didn’t know that people were being sexually abused like that until I got here.

The last Miss JSU, Destiney Lawrence, held a girls forum when she was Miss Sophomore, and we were all there, and we were able to open up. And I realized that so many people had dealt with sexual abuse, molestation or even rape. Just to be around so many people that have dealt with that made me feel more comfortable. That forum did a lot for me. Just to have that freedom to be able to talk about those things really did something for me.

Now, I want to be able to tell my testimony. I think, the more I’m learning about myself, and the more self-aware I’m becoming, I’m finding comfort in just standing on my own two feet and saying what I want to say. This is what I’ve gone through and I’m going to say it, because I can help somebody. I feel like I’ve had to deal with a lot of things, and I’ve come out beautifully afterwards. So I just want to be able to let other girls and women know that you can move forward.”

             – Alexis, senior biology/pre-dentistry major from Ridgeland, MS. Alexis is the ’17-’18 Student Government Association (SGA) President at JSU.

“I tell anybody that I’m probably one of the most fortunate people in the world, because I was raised by both my parents. I know how rare that is nowadays. With a two-parent household, you get the best of both. My mother is the best nurturer. There are things that she has taught me that my dad couldn’t. But there are also things my dad taught me that my mother couldn’t teach me.

So, no matter how hard a single mother or single father might try, it’s hard for them to play both roles. You really need both parents. Everybody that I know who’s from a single parent household wants that other parent there. They know that there is something missing. That’s why I feel fortunate – I have both parents and I have Jackson State.

My favorite thing about Jackson State is the motto, ‘Challenging Minds and Changing Lives.’ Some people think of it as just educational. Some people think it’s supposed to be just fun. But challenges are not fun. It’s not always going to be fun. 

And, as SGA president, I’ve been able to see some of the stuff students complain about, and yes, we try to fix those things. But those things are also the things that shape you for the future. For some students, the challenges deter them from wanting to give back to Jackson State or be involved with the university.

But, my grandma used to say, ‘The challenges that y’all face today, are ones we would have fought to have.’ 

So I love that Jackson State really has challenged me, in almost every way – academically, mentally, physically and spiritually. And everything helped move me in the right direction. Another one of my favorite things is the attitude that almost every alumnus I’ve every met has about JSU. That love that they have for this school is what drove me here. 

Jackson State is literally the only school I applied to. I had an aunt that went here, my uncle went here, my dad went here for a little while, and my brother and sister went here. And I hear  how people talk about other schools, but the way they raved about JSU made me decide to take a visit. And when I took that visit, during homecoming of my senior year in high school, the atmosphere here changed my life. And I said this is really the only place I want to be. So I wouldn’t trade these four years for nothing.”  

                                                 – Kendall, 2017 spring graduate, accounting major from Olive Branch, MS.

“When I was 12, both my mom and dad were incarcerated. My dad served four years in prison for drug possession charges. My mom was charged with manslaughter. She was driving a vehicle while under the influence. She had an accident, and her passenger was thrown from the vehicle and died. She served six years and six months.

My mom was a single parent with four children – of which, I’m the oldest. So, when both my parents were incarcerated, my grandmother had to take over and become our guardian. And, she was disabled. So when I turned 16, I had to work.

At one point, I actually had three jobs while still going to school. I was still a superintendent’s scholar and principal’s scholar. I was named Miss Seventh Grade at Nichols Middle School, then I won Miss Nichols Middle School. In high school, I became Miss Freshman, Miss National Honor Society, Miss Student Government Association, and Miss Canton High School. So throughout my years of working those jobs, I was able to make sure that all ends were met. And, I made sure my younger sisters and my grandmother were happy.

The way I got through that was building a relationship with God, and knowing that through everything I went through, he would bring me out. I live everyday by the scripture that says, He won’t put more on me than I can bear.

When I was running for Miss JSU, I was explaining to them that the reason I chose ‘Family’ as my platform, is because family means so much. Regardless of how your family impacted you, whether negatively or positively, they’re still the reason we are here today.

Although some of the choices my parents made hindered me in my life, it still ended up having a positive influence on me in the end.

Now, I’m the first in my family to go to college. So, like the old people say, I thank God that I don’t look like what I’ve been through. “

– Comelia, junior pre-math major from Canton.

My dad always told me that I was going to college and that he wanted me to be better than him. He would tell me the story of when he was at Jackson State and how he wasn’t a 3.0 student when he first got here. After seeing what he had to go through to make it to where he is now, he didn’t want me to go through the same thing. So, my parents pushed my sisters and me through school. I just think that they didn’t want us to go down a road that wasn’t going to advance our lives or make our journeys easier.

I transferred to Jackson State. My old school just wasn’t what I wanted for a college. It wasn’t what I thought I would see. When I came to Jackson State, I saw what I thought that I should see – the band, the football games, the morale, student leaders, and also the different opportunities that I have as a student through the College of Business. My experience at Jackson State has been awesome. I think that Jackson State has prepared me to go into the business world and use the skills that I have learned and the life skills that I have gained.

Everybody doesn’t have that extra push to continue to go through life and make a difference, whether it is within the community or within their lives. When I go back home, people always ask me to speak because I have a great story to tell. I came here as a transfer student, got in the College of Business during my sophomore year, and received an internship with KPMG, thanks to my professor. I became a student leader during my junior year, and now I’m the SGA vice president. I think that that’s a positive story. And, having the opportunity to talk to people about the seriousness of going to college is great. I want them to know what it is to be an African American in college and to understand that you don’t have to be a statistic.

My parents are very proud. They’re waiting for me to walk across that stage and be another Jackson State alum.”

– Isaac, senior accounting major from St. Louis, Missouri

When I was 15-years-old, I was sexually assaulted by a friend, and from that, I had a daughter. It caused me to lose my self-respect, and I felt like I wasn’t going to be able to go to college and do other things because I had a baby early. I wasn’t getting anywhere in life, and I lived in a small town that didn’t have a lot of things. That put me deeper in a hole, mentally and physically.

After a while, I had my second child. I had lost touch with the reality of what I was supposed to do. After I could not go to college, I felt like I wasn’t going to be who I needed to be. I had hit a dead end. It seemed like I wasn’t getting jobs and I wasn’t progressing.

After my third child, I decided that since I am their role model, I have to show them what a woman is supposed to do. So, to be an example for my three daughters, I came to school to pursue a degree to put myself in a better position for advancement opportunities. When I came back, I worked full time and took night classes. It was hard to balance going to school at night and having three teenage daughters at home. But, they loved it. They would write me notes and tell me that I am their motivation. That has helped me to strive to be better in everything that I do and to help my daughters succeed in life. One of my daughters will be graduating from Jackson State next year. I am thankful that I have my three daughters and that their lives are on track. They saw how I struggled, and they wanted to be better.

I get so emotional when I try to explain the feelings that I had during my situation. It brings back memories of not knowing where my life was going. But, I kept the faith and had a praying grandmother. Now, I am completely dedicated to God. He saw me through all of that, and now, I am stronger than ever. Sometimes, I can’t even believe how strong I am. I give other people encouraging words because I’ve been through times where I didn’t know where in the world I was going to get money from.

Now, I’m just thankful. All of this was divine from the Lord. He knew the steps before I did. I do accept that I had my baby early. I don’t advise that for someone else, but that is what he had to take me through to get me to where I am at now. My teenage pregnancy hurt me, but it motivated me somewhere in between to be successful. I started my own business, and I am in the process of writing a book about those struggles that I had – being a teenage mom, losing my husband, and losing my grandmother who was my mentor who raised me from a baby. Through it all, I have learned that you have to be patient and be persistent in your goals. Although something may throw you off track, you have to be focused and have God as the head of your life to help you through those stumbling blocks.

– Genice, JSU Class of 2009 and administrative assistant in Institutional Advancement

In my first semester, I met a lot of people. Like, one of my friends is an opera singer, and another is a violinist. I never saw that in Chicago from someone of my race. I also was able to go to Atlanta, for free, for the AEI, an entrepreneurship conference. I already have a Union Pacific internship scheduled for this summer through the College of Business. I got to meet a lot of incredible people for my business, Historically Fresh. I was able to go to Innovate Mississippi, and we actually won second place there.

JSU really just opened the doors up for me for things I can do and the network of people I can have access to. I think a lot of African Americans, coming out of high school, don’t really see the potential they have at an HBCU. Instead, they go to a PWI and kind of fall into that category of minority. So, I’m trying to change the negative perception, just by showing the world that we can create something here that resonates throughout the nation. I think that needs to be a focal point when we talk to high school seniors.”

– Javier, senior business management major from Chicago

“My goal in life is to embody black empowerment. I had an interesting experience in Ferguson, Missouri a couple of years ago when everything was happening after Michael Brown was killed. At first, we were watching everything on TV. And then I thought, wow, this is happening right in my face. And you know how you always see those movies with Martin Luther King, and you think about what you would have done at that time? I thought about that, then I borrowed my mom’s car and told her I was going to my friend’s house. She had no idea I was going to Ferguson. I went and picked up my cousin. We rode out to Ferguson. At first, the protests were live, so much good energy. It was a fun experience initially. But things started to get a little rowdy as the night fell. As we moved around a few buildings, there were a few troopers who had rubber-bullet guns, and there was a man who was standing next to us. One of the troopers shot him with a rubber bullet. And when he was shot, he didn’t know what was going on. He was lost. He was disoriented. So me and my cousin, two teenage girls, carried this man all the way back to his apartment. It was unbelievable.

And, there was so much more that happened that night. But, that experience was the reason I started my marketing company, Synigence. Synigence is targeted towards small businesses. But underneath all of that, my goal is to help propel black businesses by bringing innovative marketing to these business. I just want to help my community through economic development.

I get that from my mother, the first female mayor of East St. Louis. She was a council woman, and also an educator. She was my mentor and role model. I saw a woman who loves her community and figured out different ways to help it. 

Jackson State has helped me with this because they gave me a full ride scholarship. With my scholarship, I was able to solely focus on school. And with the gaps of time that I had, instead of partying all the time, I started to think about what I could do with the free time I had between classes. Then I remembered something Bill Gates said. He said, ‘If you’re going to start a business, you should start it while in college.’ So, that’s what I did.”

– Karmeen, junior computer science major from East St Louis, Illinois.

That’s really the best thing about JSU – getting to know a lot of people from a lot of places. We have seven or eight different nationalities on our baseball team alone. We have many international athletes in other sports here.

Everyone is just very friendly. I still remember my first couple of weeks here. A lot of people were supportive of me and were very warm and welcoming. My parents are the main people I have to be thankful for. They always support me, in all of my decisions. Hopefully, someday I can pay back all of the things they’ve done for me. I’m blessed.”

– Francisco, business management major from Mexico